Thursday, May 17, 2012

Scars

 
 
It's been said that "Time heals all wounds."
 
To which I call
Bullshit.
 
Time does not heal all wounds.
Because some wounds don't heal.
They become scars
that become imprinted in our brains
in our soul.
 
Wounds of the psyche are so much worse
than those which are physical.
What can be seen eventually heals.
 
The wounds of the soul
that can't be seen
or explained
are worse.
 
 
People can't tell, by looking at you, that you are in pain
A visible scar shows some type of trauma happened somewhere on the body
 
 
but what about the scars that cut deeper
that cut through the layer of skin
down to the soul
that never heal
that can't be seen
but that are there with us
 
time will never heal those wounds
there is no salve which can be applied to them
to lessen their visibility
 
there may be medications which we are given
when that pain becomes so deep
that psychological intervention is needed
yet unless we take a pill which erases from our memory
the trauma which caused that wound
the scar will always be there
a tattoo on our soul
 
scars which can easily break open
wounds which can bleed at anytime
these scars which are so deeply embedded in our psyche
that resist treatment
scars which never fully heal
neither do we
 
therefore
to say that time heals all wounds is an utter lie
an illusion
something we tell ourselves and others
to give hope
a false hope
because the truth is we will always remember
and as long as we do
the pain will be felt
 
our task then becomes acknowledging the scars
and learning to live with it
learning to live with the pain
because it will never go away
no matter how much time has passed

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